by Oto | Jul 18, 2024 | Creativity, Design, Inspiration, Musings, Personal Development
The concept of curation* has been on my mind for at least the past 2 years. Slowly coalescing over time as I have been fixated on the idea of defining and creating specific spaces and experiences around me.
This is a natural extension of the theme of ‘Life by Design’ - creating a life that is tailored to you, that affirms who you are, who you want to be, and what you seek to accomplish.
I have discussed the importance of your environment and why you must design your spaces in ways that support the pursuit of your goals and passions. But beyond just your environment, all things can be brought to align with your intention. The things you do, the clothes you wear, the people you interact with, the places you go. All of this can be curated around your identity.
Like I said, over the past few years, I have been engaging with this practice of curation. I have specifically selected and chosen the things around me. My space is a curation of objects and tools that are chosen and actively sought after to create the vibe I desire to live in. The people I spend time with are curated towards a similar purpose.
We all do this anyway. We all curate our lives in some way. The things we choose to watch, engage with, and use, are things that we are drawn to or exposed to. The question is, do we just allow these things into our lives haphazardly or do we consciously choose them? Because oftentimes, some of the things around us are not things we actively chose. Many times they were just always there, or they were handed to us by factors outside our control.
But being awake to life, to ourselves and our purpose, we have the ability to curate, to create around us the spaces, the people, the things, the practices, the rituals, the habits that serve that purpose, that help us grow, evolve, and be effective.
This is the philosophy of curation - bringing the practice of consciousness, of awareness, and deliberate choice to every part of our lives. To embrace the things we deem important, that give us life, fulfillment, pleasure, joy and curate around them, to invest in them, to share them. It is the path of intentionality - choosing and organising the tools, people, things and spaces that reinforce our values, desires and ambitions.
That is why we curate, as a discipline to life.
And what we choose to omit from our lives is just as important as what we choose to keep.
So what are some key things to keep in mind when curating our lives?
Know yourself, Observe yourself
Self-awareness is the starting point for all of this. It is impossible to curate if you don’t even know who you are. A sense of identity and purpose is absolutely vital. Know yourself, your strengths, weaknesses, interests, and know where you are trying to go, and what you are trying to do.
Take stock of what you have, of how things are right now. What can be improved? What needs to be adjusted, what habits do you need to drop, what rituals do you need to adopt? Look at areas where you can grow and take the necessary steps to implement them.
Curate all areas, Curate for Life
Have a holistic approach to curation and apply the principles across all areas of your life - your diet, your space, your habits, workflows, workspace, clothing, and leisure. Curate and improve every aspect of your life.
Don’t curate and optimise just for productivity and high performance, also curate for fun and pleasure, for relief, for rest and restoration. Curate your life in such a way that each part is balanced appropriately.
Seek Inspiration, Keep Evolving
It is okay to look at what others are doing. Look for inspiration and best practices, ideas that show you how great things can be in those areas of your life. They will help boost your interest and excitement and transform your life.
This is not a stagnant thing, to be done, set, and forgotten. It is a discipline, a philosophy, a way of life. To stay in tune with a sense of self, and to perpetually change and evolve the things around us in ways that stay true to who we are. As we evolve and grow over time, so we curate our lives to reflect that.
Embrace some level of chaos
We live in a world, we exist in community. Everyone has their own ideas of what is important and how lives should be. We have to exist in conversation with that. With the ideas and practice of curation, it is easy to design ourselves into isolated bubbles. But it is important to interact with things outside our curations, to have impact, to learn things we never would have, and to share our unique perspectives.
The power of curation is the ability to create the person you want to be. With it, you can significantly transform your life. It will help you hone your environment and routines in ways that will catalyse your growth and fulfilment. Add it to your toolbox, as you create a life by design.
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Side Note
*In our present-day culture, we understand the concept of curation from the art world, the process of selecting and organising artworks into a cohesive show or exhibition. The etymology of the word is from the Latin word curare, meaning to take care. This idea of caring for something persisted from the Roman times when it meant to take care of the bathhouses. In medieval times, it denoted the priest who cared for souls, by the 18th century it had come to mean looking after artifacts and art collections.
[In a 2014 interview in the Guardian](https://www.theguardian.com/artanddesign/2014/mar/23/hans-ulrich-obrist-art-curator#:~:text=It's worth thinking about the,care of the bath houses.)*, Hans Ulrich Obrist posits that as a profession, curation meant at least four things. To preserve and safeguard the heritage of art, to be a selector of new work, to connect to art history, and to display or arrange the work.*
If I were to extrapolate those 4 key pillars to the idea of curating for life, I would say it means - to preserve what already works, to seek new ideas and practices, to connect to a deep sense of self/identity, and to be organised and deliberate in how we live.
by Oto | Apr 29, 2024 | Inspiration, Musings, Personal Development, Productivity
By nature, building a Life by Design requires a perpetual sense of intentionality. Getting clear about what you want, where you are, what is standing in your way, and what action you can take. To process these questions, we will often resort to our tools of introspection - pondering, writing, journaling, all that good stuff.
Sometimes these are simple musings, or us jotting down our wildest dreams, the things we hope to achieve but have no real way of engaging with yet. Other times we are busy making concrete plans, lists, and checklists.
As we work out our lives, we piece together our dreams with scraps of information, knowledge, messages, and drafts of content. Each piece adds to the puzzle that is the pursuit of our goals.
Every day we come across a wide range of inputs. We dig into the ideas of others, the lessons from those who have gone the way before us. We dip into the daily rapids of social media, a stream teeming with entertainment, propaganda, tips, tricks, and showcases.
A lot of it is useless, sure. But there is also so much information that we stumble upon that is clearly useful to our lives, our goals, and our routines. If we are lucky, we capture them somewhere, maybe in the bookmarks folder of our favourite platform, or in our watch later tab on YouTube. Where they proceed to be lost to time, never to be seen again.
Eventually, managing all these bits of information grows unwieldy. We have our notes and ideas strewn across notepads, notebooks, sheets of paper, as well as the aforementioned plethora of apps and social media platforms. If we are particularly messy, perhaps even our actual digital desktop is a chaotic mess of files. I’ve been there.
More frustratingly so, when we need to get work done, be creative, and pursue a goal, taking action becomes hampered by the difficulty of remembering and finding that cool idea or resource you came across the other day.
There has to be a way, a framework to approach this problem of personal knowledge management.
What if there was a way to wrangle all these platforms and mediums, all this knowledge, ideas, thoughts, and intellectual property in a way that is streamlined, and effective?
Imagine having a way to handle every stray idea or inspiration that came to mind or that you stumbled across. Imagine being able to archive the information you gather and find it at a whim. Imagine sitting down to work and having all the research and notes you’ve gathered, processed, and available at your fingertips ready to be whipped up into your next magnum opus.
Imagine reading books and retaining more, and being able to quickly dive back into the contents of those books just by quickly browsing your notes.
Consider the mental bandwidth it would free for you, grasp the kind of gains you could make to the quality and quantity of your work and your life.
Enter “Building a Second Brain” a book by Tiago Forte.
I first heard about this book some years ago but never got around to reading it properly. At the time, what little I knew about the concept paired well with Ryan Holiday’s idea of the Commonplace Book. But I definitely appreciated the premise and core idea, the need to have a framework and method to manage the information you collect, consume, and create in a way that deepens your learning and supercharges your effectiveness at getting things done.
I have always used notebooks and A4 sheets of paper to understand myself and plan my life. I have also dabbled with almost every app and platform known to man. And while my process had certainly improved over time, In 2024, there was certainly much room for improvement.
So over the past few months, I finally got around to it and I’ve been reading and re-reading the book, and I highly recommend the book. If you would like to build a proper personal knowledge management system and become a ninja at using and manipulating information, this is a good place to start. Get and read the book.
If you already have some form of personal knowledge management system going on, this book could help you refine and improve that still.
In the meantime, here are some key ideas.
First, what the hell is even a Second Brain?
A Second Brain is a system of note-capturing apps and processing methods that allow you to effectively manage the information you come across, consume, and create.
With it, you can collate all the random ideas, notes to self, research, plans, checklists, dreams, creative projects, goals, all the bits of information that run your life and put them into a framework that allows you to easily capture things that resonate with you, process them and find them when you need to use it.
Essentially, your Second Brain is an external digital repository that handles the collection and storing of facts, ideas, and information, so that your actual brain, your First Brain is free and primed to do what it does best - think, imagine, and create.
This is especially important for the creative. A huge part of the creative process is collecting information, references, ideas, and inspiration. The way we collect these pieces of information and the ease with which we can manipulate, use, and reuse them will have massive impacts on our creative output and experience.
It is important for everyone, even if you don’t consider yourself creative.
"Anything you want to accomplish - executing a project at work, getting a new job, learning a new skill, starting a business - requires finding and putting to use the right information."
Tiago Forte (Building a Second Brain)
So, why build and maintain a Second Brain?
- It keeps you organised. We consume and create an enormous amount of information daily, we need a system to keep all of it in check, capturing what is truly important in an easily scannable, digestible, and implementable format. I have talked about the power of being organised many times. Bringing this philosophy into your knowledge management system is a superpower. When you are set up like this, you are able to work effectively, and even when you are thrown off course, or take breaks or time off from the project, you are easily able to pick up right where you left off because of how organised you are.
- It helps you look deeper at the world around you. Knowing that you have a system on hand, to easily capture and review information that is important to you, you begin to engage with the world more deeply. You deepen the texture of your life. You are no longer overwhelmed, but able to listen properly, take better notes, notice things you never saw before, and make connections you never noticed before. You can freely go down rabbit holes knowing you have a way to capture the things you learn.
- It helps you understand and retain more from the content you consume. With the Second Brain, you will have a way to capture the ideas you glean from videos, social media, books, random chats with friends, and so on. More so, you are able to actually engage with the ideas, put them in your own words, and apply them to your life.
- Curate your storehouse of ideas and epiphanies. All those crazy and powerful insights you get in your daily life. From that book, video, podcast, conversation. Now you have a place to put them and return to when you need them. Over time, you will build your personal library of wisdom, your own tao.
- Makes it easy for you to do the work that matters. In our fast-paced world, we are bombarded with information and requests all day. Having a Second Brain allows us to focus on what is truly important to us and handle the rest appropriately. In today’s age, the quality of work and opportunities we have are a direct function of the information we use and have. Building a Second Brain is a powerful tool in increasing our skills, and advancing our careers.
- Frees up the mind to do what it does best, be creative. Like I said earlier, the Second Brain does the work of remembering and organising all the information that you come across, so you can actually do the fun stuff - being innovative and creative, actually putting remarkable things out into the world.
"Be regular and orderly in your life so that you may be violent and original in your work."
Gustave Flaubert, French Novelist.
This might all seem overwhelming, but the key idea here is to take this concept and make it your own. Embed these ideas in your way into your daily routine and lifestyle. As you build your Second Brain, it will become second nature to capture the ideas that resonate with you, as well as review and process your notes, so as you work on your practice of work or creativity, as you build your Life by Design, you are able to be incredibly effective and do amazing things.
by Oto | Mar 11, 2024 | Inspiration, Musings, Personal Development, Productivity
As you walk down the path of intentional living, you will end up refining, curating and building a life tailored to your soul. Your routine, your habits, and your environment all working together to move you to the place you want to be and to a fuller expression of your potential - your most authentic self.
At this point, you know yourself, and what you are all about. You know the things that you like and what resonates with your soul. For the first time, you might actually have the opportunity to truly immerse yourself in these things. How do you go deeper?
This is something I have been thinking about lately - how to improve the texture of life.
These days, my life feels very intentional. For the first time in a decade, I feel truly ready to live the life I have always tried to create. I am doing good work, with good people. I have the relationships and space and everything I need to make things happen. And that is great. But what comes next? How can I improve the day-to-day experiential texture of my life? how do I deepen the results I get?
This idea of deepening the texture of life first occurred to me in the context of improving my creative process.
As a freelancer over the years, I always had the experience of going for quantity over quality. I would pack my schedule full of work to maximise the amount of money I could make. And because sometimes clients fall off, or payments are delayed and all sorts of things happen, the easiest way to deal with that instability is to pack on so much, that on average things work out.
The problem with doing things this way is that you end up rushing a lot. You move quickly from thing to thing, doing what is good enough, as opposed to what is best. And to an extent, it can work. I have become able to do a fair amount of high quality work in a compressed period of time.
However, I do want to improve the texture of my creative work. To make it richer in meaning, execution and impact. And that means more time, that means more experimentation. It requires an investment in learning, in studying, practicing new techniques, pushing software to its limits.
To deepen the texture of my work, I would need to set aside time for just that. Periods of time to be fully immersed. To sacrifice efficiency and instead linger longer, to wonder, ponder and create.
When you scale this concept up, deepening the texture of life means adding new layers to the things to do. To discover what you love and to invest the time and energy in knowing it deeper, to practicing it deeper, slower, more intentionally, to really flesh it out and grow in that dimension.
It means being mindful of your experience, and investing the time and resources to doing it well.
Deepening the texture of work means being more organised, tracking your progress, staying strategically aware, collaborating with people, and seeking more impact.
Deepening the texture of relationships, means more time spent with loved ones, deeper conversations and bonded activities.
Deepening the texture of rest means truly unplugging, setting boundaries, improving sleep, exercising the body, and engaging in hobbies for the simple pleasure of doing them.
It is really just about identifying that things you love and engaging in them in a deeper way to enrich the quality of your life experience and your output.
This is usually the opposite of what we generally do, which is hurtle from one thing to the next. In the bid to do more, we get busy, burdened with tasks and responsibilities. And so we rush from thing to thing, never truly paying attention. In turn, we live shallow lives, getting things done but nothing exceptionally great, nothing that activates and deepens the soul.
Deepening the texture of your life is highly focused curation. The energy you cultivate and entertain around your interests is very important. It is crucial to walk with people who share your passion. In this way the depth multiplies, everyone bringing something unique to the shared experience.
As you deepen your life in this way, you will experience new levels of joy and satisfaction and reap the benefits of a profoundly intentional life.
Enjoy it, grow from it and share it with those whose energies are attuned to yours. Walk with those who are passionate about the things you are, and unlock a new experience.
by Oto | Jan 29, 2024 | Inspiration, Musings, Personal Development
As we get things going in the New Year, I have found myself in reflection, as we all do at this time. The key questions on our minds are - what do we want and what will we do to get it?
If we have been doing this for a while, then we look back to our previous answers to those questions. We look back at our goals and plans from yesteryear. We see what worked and what didn’t, we see where we made progress and where we stalled.
Then we tweak and we move.
In this present cycle, I am coming to realise that sometimes, progress is simply continuing old plans.
If you have done the work to know yourself and craft a purpose for yourself. Then much by way of aim doesn’t change. You know what you want, a fulfilling career, good health, loving relationships, etc.
At the same time, when you first set these goals, you probably thought you could get them done relatively quickly. And sometimes, you can. But often, we overestimate our abilities, and we misjudge the road to our goal. Things usually take much longer than you think.
And that’s pretty cool because, if you are clear about who you are and what you want, you can essentially spend your life pursuing that. You could spend a lot of time executing and refining a plan, over years and decades.
For me, progress in 2024 looks like picking up goals from 2023, from 2022, from 2017, seeing which ones have been achieved and which ones remain untackled. It looks like refining the routine, refreshing the approach, tweaking the strategy, and learning from failure.
It looks like celebrating what has been fixed and looking towards what comes next.
It looks like finally being able to start tackling things that have seemed impossible before.
Refine your systems
The ability to return to my notes and archives after a break and more or less pick up where I left off, is something that always amazes me. That is the power of being organised, of having things in their set place. So when you need to pick up the project again you don’t have to go searching for things. The friction to getting started again is reduced. All you need to do is review the material, load the project onto your mind, and get to work.
This is why we must keep refining and updating our systems. We need to be considered in the way we handle information, keep notes, keep track of resources, organise plans. The ease and effectiveness of our lives depend on the strength of our systems.
It is easy to continue old plans when they are easily accessible.
Embrace the practice
The journey to success is unending. Once one objective is reached, we move to another. The point is perpetual growth, and constant evolution. The point is the journey, not the destination.
We understand that focusing on our systems as opposed to goals is a more effective way to get what we want. Baking the tasks we need to do into our daily routine, and into our way of life allows us to achieve our goals with ease.
In this way, we create a daily texture to our days that keeps us sharp and moving towards our goals. It helps us understand that this is a long process and that we keep weaving the tapestry of our lives, one thread at a time.
So in continuing old plans, we embrace the practice, the day-to-day. Refining our actions, and our rituals. Slowly improving this, slowly improving that.
We embrace the practice in learning, in studying, in practicing…our craft, our roles, our obligations. We seek to make the ‘doing’ always better than the last time. We perpetually improve.
Focus on the goal
Simply practicing is not enough though, we have to be directed. The point is the journey, yes, but the goal gives us focus, it gives us direction, and instruction.
Keep the goal in front of you. Make it lofty.
And pursue it relentlessly, let all your efforts be so directed.
Challenge assumptions
Sometimes we remain stuck, not because of lack of ability, but because of a fault in perspective. Sometimes, all it takes is one shift to make the difference. In prayer, meditation, and journalling, we find the tools to examine ourselves and our views, to tease out insights that unravel the tangled mess of our ambitions by tugging on the strands of perspective.
With these mantras, we can continue to let our moves stack on each other. We can continue to improve, to grow, becoming more capable and more effective.
We can continue our plans and hit heights we never imagined.
by Oto | Jan 9, 2024 | Inspiration, Musings, Personal Development
I know, I know, It’s been a while. But hey, it is a new year and yes, I am here again, back on my bullsh*t about how this is gonna be a great year for my content and all of that. No lies, I really did have the best of intentions last year when I said I was going to create more content across multiple platforms, I really did. But as we all know, life happens.
So what’s been going on over the past year since I published one of these?
Like I said, I really did intend to make more content. However, one real bottleneck around content creation can be technology and gear, and honestly, my setup this time last year was not up to the task of the scale of my ambition, so I decided to focus on fixing that issue first.
Fast forward 12 months and I’ve got a whole new setup, new machines, new gear, all ready to go, and with the freshness of the new year, now is a good time as any to get back on the horse.
Plus with a full year of living under my belt, I should have something to say again.
What to expect next?
Well, there are ideas, many ideas. For instance, I want Life by Design to become its own platform and community focused on helping people live more intentional lives. This is still in the idea phase but more will be revealed in due time. I am also working on a book with the same title.
In the meantime, expect the usual thought-provoking musings on here. The podcast will return in some capacity. and there will probably be some video content as well.
I will also be making more content around design, branding, and business in general, but that will be on the studio website, which incidentally has a bit of a refresh. Check it out.
Finally, I will be executing some form of mixed media art experiential intervention near the end of the year.
Alright, with that bit of housekeeping out the way, it is the new year. Welcome to 2024. Hope you have been well since the last time.
What’s on my mind as the year begins?
Since 2010, this blog has been a public documentation of ideas and lessons I’ve learned, and it has been tremendously useful and transformative. First and foremost, for me.
But as we continue in our journey and practice of self-improvement, and with the passing of the last 5 years, I find it important to bring a critical lens to our approach. We need to review our perspective.
I have criticized and raised a wary eye to the limits of the philosophy as well as the dark sides of the genre previously in my writing. It is why my content in the past handful of posts has sought to colour a bit outside the lines and bring in much needed flexibility.
The modern self-help genre and industry developed as a response to the sweeping changes of the Industrial Revolution. Life as an office or factory worker was very different from life in the agrarian plains. Workers needed new skills and new paradigms with which to engage this new world and thrive. With more social mobility and opportunities available to people, the ideas of personal responsibility, self-reliance, improving yourself, and maximising the exploitation of every part of your life so as to secure professional growth and life happiness became and have remained very attractive.
This field has evolved over the decades, morphing and responding to the changes in technology, society, and media to the place we are now, where most of us seek to be the best that we can be by optimising and monetising as much as we can. It is commendable but it can also be obsessive.
Because life is more than work, life is more than checking off boxes. It is a dance, it is an experience, it is a journey, an adventure, a practice, a calling, a sentence.
And if you subscribe to the idea of Life by Design, then success becomes less about living a prescribed life and more about crafting one that is uniquely yours, richly authentic, deeply fulfilling, and aligned with the principles of this existence.
The paradigm shift before us
Life before 2020 and life after 2020 are very different beasts. In the previous decade, 2010 - 2019, we were drunk on the idea of infinite growth, of the potential of these vastly sweeping changes in technology and society. From how we moved, to how we communicated and how we worked, there were a lot of changes, a lot of promises, and a lot of money to be made.
But since the worldwide pandemic, disruptions and polarisation have spread across the globe. From that initial techno-optimism to today’s generally pessimistic attitude, we seem to have regressed in important ways and accelerated in our worst impulses.
Muted now are our ambitions, our desires to change the world, our faith in our ability to effect change. We have seen economies crumble, pandemics spread, countries shut down, hate increase, coups happen, and wars break out. At the same time, prices continue to increase, and the 99% get squeezed, while the 1% continue to extract value from the economy at rates that would make the robber barons of old blush.
Here on the ground level, our social media feeds get more insipid, and our attention spans contract. Fading away is genuine human-to-human interaction. Now we all sound like bots with our humble brags and posturing, each of us trying to be the king of the heap. Any heap.
In a time of actual abundance, with the potential of billions of connections online, of easy access to food, and products, we face a scarcity of the real stuff - mental wellness, strong social bonds, happiness, prospects, connection.
Let’s not even talk about climate change and that ticking time bomb.
Even Marvel sucks now.
It really be the darkest timeline…
So what then?
Do we give in to apathy and become doom-scrolling addicts? What do we do?
Well, we know what happens out there doesn’t matter as much as how we interpret it and what we do about it. So, first we reclaim ground by focusing on the personal - by controlling what we can. Then we reclaim ground together - by collaborating towards our collective needs.
And that is the true purpose of seeking self-mastery, to become our best selves and offer that in service.
But we are usually sold something else. Society’s messaging and our capitalist system usually condition us to pursue individual happiness through the acquisition of things. That’s all it does, it stimulates our impulses, deepens our insecurities, fragments us, and tells us to strive and pursue to buy things to satiate us.
Now with our smart devices, we can all live in our own personal bubbles, fed by our algorithms and social media AI, all trying in vain to consume our way to fulfillment.
But the things that make a good life still remain more accessible to us than they would have us believe. It’s not more money or experiences, or possessions or clout. It is the simple things - work that you like, the feeling of progress, and becoming better at something you love. It is time spent with friends and family and people you admire. It is in your character, your attitude, your perspective, your respect for yourself, your resilience, your skills. It is in your connection to the divine and sublime.
Focus on the real riches.
Be true to yourself.
What do you value? What is important to you?
The upheavals might be more personal, more close to home. A lot of us face deep changes.
Maybe you are well along with your life, you are settled into the routine, the spouse, the kids, the work, the career, and the holidays. And suddenly there is this scratching itch that something isn’t working, that you are stuck in a career, a relationship, a situation that is less than ideal. Or perhaps, everything comes crashing down.
Or maybe you are just getting started, trying to find your feet, in a fast-changing and unfair world. You feel confused, pulled in multiple directions by expectations, false promises, and opportunities.
Or perhaps still, you are well on in years, in the season of slowing down, of reflecting, of handing over to the next generation. Wondering if you have done enough.
No matter where you are on the path, to live a life worthy of the miracle of being, you have to ask yourself what is important to you. It is a question that isn’t easily answered but can be grown into. Day by day, you can live your way into a true answer.
Instead of mindlessly chasing after everything. Gain a deep awareness of what makes your soul sing, what makes you excited, your passions, your interests, and your quirks and curate your life around these things. Have the courage to do more of that, to give more of that.
Learn to engage with the world on your terms while respecting reality.
Because unlike what the gurus would want to sell you, there are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going. There will still be the work. There will still be the need for vision, for problem solving, for tenacity, for practice, for discipline, for self mastery.
But you will make it, and at the very least, through the storms and uncertainty, you will stand with your hands on the reins of your life, consciously choosing, intentionally creating. And you will be the better for it.
The more of us do that. The better things will be. The better we can lead ourselves and our community. The better poised we are to contribute.
Perhaps then we can use these advancements and tools to connect us like never before. Maybe we can actually listen to each other and build resilient lives and communities together.
So as the year unfolds before us, let us commit to growing ourselves and collaborating together.
After all, we are all on the same team.
by Oto | Mar 14, 2023 | Inspiration, Musings, Personal Development, Productivity
A couple years ago, I wrote this piece - Start by Doing it Badly. Inspired by a Jordan Peterson video by the same title, it is a powerful concept that can be used to free you from the shackles of perfectionism and serve as a vital tactic in the war against Resistance.
In the pursuit of our goals, it can often be hard to get ourselves to do the things we need to do. We doubt that we are any good, and paralysed by the fear of failure, we do nothing. However, It is our willingness to look foolish, to suck at first, to begin by doing it badly that will make our eventual success more plausible.
Once we have gotten started though, we need to sustain that effort. With every iteration, we learn, we improve, we get better. We create the rough drafts to work with, we make mistakes and learn more about the thing we are doing. Over time we should definitely get better automatically from repetition, but how much better we get is also within our control.
To really improve, to truly operate at higher levels, we have to embrace the craftsman’s mentality. We must seek to be excellent, to strive at perfection.
It is like playing a video game. At first you suck, dying to enemies, not sure what button to press or how to wrangle the many mechanics. But the more you play, the more you get into flow. You know what to expect, you know when to attack, when to draw back. You learn what abilities and resources to invest in. You learn to play the game.
At this point, you could just coast on your abilities and get right through to the end of the game, barely eking out your victory. You could take what you know and survive, doing good enough work. Doing okay, being average.
Or you could strive for more. You could seek domination. You could know this game inside out that the hardest bosses eventually seem trivial. When you enter the arena, it is they who hear the boss music, quaking in their boots.
So it is with life. You start by doing it badly. But whatever you choose to do, eventually, strive for perfection, strive for excellence. Strike to give at least more truly remarkable performance, in your career, in your calling, in your art.
And how do we do that?
- By dedicating yourself to the craft
- By studying and imitating the best
- By studying the game, the craft
- By deliberately practising and seeking out feedback
- By being obsessive
This improvement is not something that happens automatically. But something that must be fought for and hard won. It is through dedication and hard work and practice that we can approach perfection.
But understand that perfection might not be possible, but it is the trying that matters, giving every drop of what we have for the cause. By running the good race, fighting the good fight.
Start by doing it badly, end by doing it perfectly.